Okay, they're not really secrets—just awesome ideas we encourage you to steal. by The Knot 1. Arrange Seating Thoughtfully: It sounds obvious, but don't discount the importance of a solid seating arrangement. Place guests with people they'll know and get along with. It might seem like a great idea to play matchmaker, or force your guests to sit with strangers to make new friends—but at the end of the day, they're there for you, and to catch up with their own farflung pals. P